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NEWS OF 2000's LEAVERS


2008 News

Gemma Brown 2000
I am getting married on June 20th, 2008 to Ben Jones. It is an exciting prospect and i am looking forward to seeing my old school friends there. we live in a village just outside of Coventry, and are busy doing up our cottage.
I am working at Coventry Hospital, and am in my first year of specialist obstetrics and gynaecology training.
I have just taken my part 1 exam - first since graduation so I think my brain was a little rusty!


 

NEWS OF 1990's LEAVERS
 
2008 News

Tara Dhillon 1992
Many thanks for the OGA School Tie, which I picked up recently from my old flat. I have now rented that out and have moved back into London (for my sins!) to be with my fiancé, since December 2006.
Thought I'd might drop you a line and update you with some bits of news, if you wish to add to the next OGA School Tie. I am getting married on July 12* (16 weeks this Saturday, time is really flying by, as friends have told me it would!), so that's the highlight of the year, I guess. Last year, I bought the company that I have been working at for the last nine years. I specialise in training for the pharmaceutical industry, but am currently working on offering more generic types of training, which I'll be able to pitch to all industries, that's the plan so far!
As far as old girls from Ashford are concerned, I keep in touch with Marie and Kathy Clark, Joceline Bushell (now Mrs Topham) and her sister, Genevieve, Anna Denne (now Mrs Parrett) and of course, my sister, Tanya. She's a solicitor for a law firm, specialising in divorce (so I don't aim to give her any business in the near future!!).
Many thanks for the School Tie, it's great to hear peoples' news and also to see how things are going at Ashford, it's changed considerably since I left in 1992.
 

2007 News

Claire Awcock
(1990) is still much enjoying work as a Speech and Language Therapist specialising in early intervention and prevention. She wrote, ‘Up until April this year I was based at the Weymouth and Portland Sure Start Children’s Centre where I was responsible for co-ordinating and providing speech and language therapy services for local families with children aged 0-4 years as well as developing speech and language training packages for local nurseries/pre schools and family centres.
However more recently I’ve been developing my ‘mummy role’!  My partner James and I were thrilled to have a beautiful baby girl called Megan Phoebe Robinson on 8th May this year.  I’m on maternity leave until January when I may need to be dragged back to work – can’t imagine not being with Meg every day.
I stay in contact with
Sarah Gleadall, another 1990 leaver, who had a small family wedding to her partner Ajay in Italy last year.  Unfortunately we were unable to make their wedding celebrations in London in January because of moving house, but I hear that plenty of old Ashford School girls were there, including Jenny Boyd, Shan Cunliffe and Karen Baker (all now with different surnames and babies/bumps in tow!)

Amanda Curtis-Christie (Mrs Tames), '97,wrote in May in reply to a letter from Sandra Noel:
"Thank you for the subscription reminder, I must admit that I have been remiss in renewing this year as I have been extremely busy. Since I wrote last, in 2003, I graduated from the University of Manchester, as predicted I gained a 2:1 in Media specialising in Television Production with Business Management and IT. I also married my husband, Mark James, on Saturday, 5th July 2003 and this year we will be celebrating our third wedding anniversary. Our son, Daniel Benjamin James was born at Warrington General Hospital on 17th August 2004 and he is fast approaching 2 years old. My daughter, Bethany Amber James, will be 5 in November and is due to start school in the next academic year. This year I have been lecturing part time at my local college, teaching Moving Image theory to post 16 year-olds. In September this year I will be returning to University to gain my PGCE in further and higher education at the University of Bolton. We are also in the process of moving house so I would be most grateful if you could send any information at present to my parents' house and they can then forward it to me.  I would be most grateful if you forward the above information to the School Tie for its next publication."

Sarah Milburn '91 is now living in Montreal - the association has an up to date email address which is available to members if required.
 


 

NEWS OF 1980's AND 1970's LEAVERS


2008 News

From Rebecca Walker '89 (Mrs Ireland)
I am a busy working mum with 2 boys - Ben 6 and Ollie 2. I am still at Clarkslegal LLP in Reading, and practice employment law. I was made up to equity partner in 2007.
Whenever possible we escape to a small apartment we bought in the Pyrenees last year, lots of fresh air and sun. The ski-ing is good in winter.
My 2 step sisters, Bo and Katie bates live near reading; Katie has 2 boys as well so family get togethers are a bit riotous. Bo still works for the British International Rowing Association, and sails at the weekend. She recently participated in a yacht race across the Atlantic, finishing second to an all professional crew. After all the hard work she was able to relax in the Caribbean Sun over Christmas.
I keep in touch with Catherine Pring, who now lives in Surbiton, commuting into London to het job in telecoms. Her real passion is photography, so I forsee a possible change of career.....

 

2007 News

200rom
Vicky (88) and Teresa(83) Heaton.  Vicky is now married (Mrs Heaton-Tongsi), living in the north of Thailand with her young son, Toby.  She also works part-time for the British Council

Teresa (Mrs Heaton Adegbile);  married with two sons, lives in Thamesmead and is currently trying to start up her own business selling children’s clothes

 


 

NEWS OF 1960's LEAVERS

2008 News

2007 News

Felicity (Flick) Johnson '61 (Mrs Ellis) has been in touch by email with Carolyn: from August "Such a long time ago but I remember you vividly. We were in Nightingale together and you invited me to stay in your mews house in Kensington one weekend. Just recently I met Carolyn Waterhouse (Mrs Smith) at my mother's funeral. She put me in touch with the Ashford O.G.A. where I have just seen your name as the Secretary on a copy of the May newsletter. I am planning to come to the Hop Pickers lunch on llth October and wondered if you would be there? I'm afraid 1 haven't been any good at keeping in touch though Clare Davidson and I are still best friends! She is returning from Santa Fe, New Mexico next year and would also like to visit Ashford again and, like me, make connections to an earlier life!" and from the following day! "As I read your email the years rolled back! Do you remember some of us called you 'Nelms'!? How wonderful of your father to pay half my fare to Australia! This I had forgotten. I stayed there for over 2 years and after that returned to London and have been here ever since though have done a great deal of travelling as well. We also have a boy and girl - Rachel 30, Joe 28. Rachel is in Brazil though we have much contact via Skype and visits; Joe lives round the corner with a long-term girlfriend who is much like another daughter. I could go on and on but will refrain from too much information at this stage!! We've probably both had lives that would fill several volumes (most people have by the time they get to our age).
My sister-in-law has a beautiful farmhouse house just outside La Guepie, in SW France so we know the area quite well and have over the years spent many holidays all over France. We love it." Ed's Note: My father's huge investment totalled £5!! Remember the Government Scheme?

Rachel Cecil '62 (Mrs Hardy) wrote a note on their Christmas letter saying they had met up with Janet Richer (now White) and her husband Chris in Melbourne. They all had dinner together and Rachel sent a lovely photo (which we'll put on the website). Later in the year she joined up with Margaret (Cecil, Mrs Vasconcelos) and Alec and their family...children, spouses and their children in a hilltop village on the Spanish side of the Pyrenees. They got fit walking up and down the steep path between the house and the car. She also visited sister Anne in Ohio for Thanksgiving, another wonderful family get-together. These are just notes for us on the back of a very interesting "travel" documentary with photos about a five week trip to Sydney on the Silver Cloud, spending their 40th wedding anniversary on board, and many other trips to US and around Europe which followed. As a proud mum Rachel tells of her daughter Catherine's success with her restaurant in Edinburgh, The Left Bank, winning the Best Cheap Eats Restaurant in the UK award. She ends by saying that the old Town Hall in Birmingham has been beautifully restored to its original splendour, and is back in business with musical concerts several times a week, and just outside their front door.

Sue Hooker '64 (Mrs Waters) wrote before the last Quaglinq's luncheon: "No doubt you will know by now that I have succumbed and will be coming to the lunch this November!! Sandy Hollander spurred me into action and I have since been in touch with Sue Helfand (Mrs Banks) who I gather has been in touch with you, and also Val Taylor who will be coming. Am trying to get Jenny Massey, Carol Scott and Pauline McDermott (Mrs Finn) to come! I have persuaded Gill Waters, my sister-in-law, to come. She is trying to find a few of her contemporaries - she is 10 years older than me.
Di Wiggins asked me to play in the Silver Tassie Cup this year but unfortunately I ended up going into The Somerfield Hospital to have a total knee replacement at the beginning of May. I have been putting off the evil day for about 4 years and was hoping to leave it until this autumn, but the consultant was very adamant that I wasn't to play golf this summer so I thought I might as well get on with it -1 had 10 weeks to get back to some sort of normality as James our eldest son was married, down in Cornwall at the end of July! - a very happy occasion enjoyed by all. Anyway, all seems to be going in the right direction and am back on the golf course, in a buggy at the moment until I can walk down hills comfortably. Hitting 60 seems to be a milestone for problems!!! Really looking forward to meeting up with you again at Quaglinos!"

Judi Wilson '67 (Mrs Hirst) has been in touch: "I am Judi Hirst nee Wilson at school from 1961 -1967. I was a boarder in Nightingale House.   I am in contact with Yvonne Bridgeland (Mrs Goodwin) Hilary Kirby (Mrs Paterson), Kathryn Pittock (Mrs Sarton-La Pierre) Marion Goodchild (Mrs Riley), Lesley Cannings and Sue Bates (Mrs Reynolds).
I have just met up with
Hilary Paterson having not seen her since 1967.
I would love to get in touch with
Elaine Webb, Cilia Parkei; Maryanne Seldon, Sanishad Pirani and Jackie Barton that were all at school with me.   I have just joined the Old Girls' Association and was wondering if any of the above have been in touch with you.
I live near Sandwich in Kent - have 2 children both married and a 15 month grandson which I enjoy looking after 1 day a week."

Dianne Geary '69 (Mrs Weeks) who wrote on becoming a member: "Having just joined the OGA and having received the latest bulletin, I have been inspired to write and say how exciting it all is to stir up those old grey cells with names from the past, so much so, I will update you on a great reunion of my own I have had recently with 2 other Old Girls.
My name at school was Dianne Geary and I was there from the Prep school in 1958 (I think!) until I left after A levels in 1969. I subsequently went to King Alfred's College in Winchester to train as a teacher and have just retired (well, very early, you understand!) from my second headship in a junior school in Andover, Hants. I am married with 2 boys (21 and 23) to David and we are both now dabbling with a spot of property developing, restoring and racing vintage cars, breeding chocolate Labradors, writing novels (me, that is) and travelling the world.
In conjunction with this last activity, we met up last year with
Fiona McAdam (now Dr Foster) and Susan (Tophee) Sharp, now Sue O'Leary, on a round the world trip we did over some 5 weeks and 5 countries, including Grand Cayman where Figgs lives and Australia where Tophee now resides. The exchanges of photos and memories was relentless; schoolgirl giggles rang through the homes and our husbands were subjected to seeing their beloved wives revert to childhood once again. They can now both sing the School Song and the Liberty song, though more through involuntary saturation than independent desire. Tophee was still working in the Tax Office 1 believe when we saw her but she was so taken with stories of us "Retirees" that she has since joined the club. They have recently moved to Queensland to be near her first grandchild. (I can't believe she is old enough or sensible enough to be a grandmother, for goodness sake!) We had a fab time in Perth with them both and were given a tour of the area with plenty of swimming (with no necessity, I am glad to say, of having to change on Lib Lawn as we did at school!) We tried to love their two alpacas but they were rather aloof but their horse Blue Gum loved being tickled. We finished up our tour of far-flung places in Grand Cayman where once again the years were rolled back. We were greeted at the airport by Figgs wearing an old Ashford panama hat, just in case we didn't recognise each other but we needed no such aide-memoire. (I was impressed that she still had the hat which she had commissioned a friend in Scotland to bring over, as I distinctly remember shredding mine on the last train journey home between Ashford and Bearsted!) Again we saw the lovely island from top to toe and all the ravages of Hurricane Ivan two years previously. We played Scrabble (Figgs always won as she uses medical words that I have never heard of) and swam in her lovely pool and the crystal blue sea with the stingrays (pre Irwin's demise) and ate and drunk a little (no, I lie, a lot!). It was so strange to see her dressed up looking like a real doctor on the morning we left and she went back to work. Such wonderful memories were aroused and new ones made during the trip. I can't wait to meet up again with them and others to capture my youth which tries to get away from me all the time I'm not looking. With any luck I will try to get to the London Lunch in November in case there may be some other old (as in the past, not wrinkly) faces.
All power to the OGA which beats Friends Reunited any time. I look forward to keeping in touch with other OGs. All the best."

 


 

NEWS OF PRE 1960's LEAVERS

2008 News

Mary Wainwright (Mrs Hedgecoe) 1959
Six years ago I retired from the job as school secretary which I had for 20 years - loved the job although I never felt I quite reached Miss Harland's formidable heights! I continued with a very part time secretarial job for a friend of ours for 5 years but have now fully retired. We have three sons all married and five grandsons four of which live in London and Brighton so I am very involved which is lovely. Our youngest son and his Ecuadorean wife live in Madrid with their new baby so we do quick darts backwards and forwards. My family lived in Madrid when I was a child and when I started at Ashford I went back to Madrid for the first three holidays - then my father was sent to Argentina so I used to go out one year to see the family and they would come over the next year! It sounds quite archaic now but there were a lot of us at Ashford who were in the same situation and in fact I think one of the reasons my parents chose the school was because it was "abroad-friendly".
My sister Katherine lives in London (she is 3 years younger than me) and my youngest sister Frances (8 years younger) lives in Yorkshire. The person I keep most in touch with is
Georgina Hyde (who is now known as Annie Chariesworth). She lives in Wiltshire, works for a charity and leads a very busy life. I also do Christmas cards each year to (but have not seen recently) Gillian Evans (Mrs Oxenham), Susan Brown (Mrs McGlaggan), Jean Richmond (Mrs Whittle). Annie and I have thoughts of trying to organize a reunion perhaps next year as it is 50 years since the last of our year group left. Should we get our act together I will certainly get back in touch with you.
Thank you all for everything you do to produce the School Tie. I love reading it but as you know I'm not very good at keeping in touch.

 
2007 News

Penny Hoes (Mrs Fawkner) (53) contacted Dilys Lougher (Mrs Harlow) for information about Rosemary James.  Penny met Alison Furneaux (Mrs Hough) for a chatty lunch last summer; at Christmas she received a long, newsy letter from Margaret Taylor – Mexie (Mrs White).  She and her husband live in the United States and are still travelling extensively in their retirement.  Penny also heard from Angela Gibson(Mrs Martin), whose husband, Michael, is recovering from surgery following a heart attack in August 2006.  Penny had a shoulder operation last October to mitigate the effects of arthritis, but she and her husband are still very active in a number of local societies with various hobbies including music and painting – there are never enough hours in the day for everything.

Jill Barfoot 1952
While staying with
Penny Barnett (Mrs Spence) in France this summer I met one of her neighbours, Audrey Wiles (Mrs Hay), always known as Katri, who has recently moved to France to live near her son and daughter-in-law.  Katri was at Ashford 1930-36, first in the newly-built Cranmer, and then in Chaucer (her father was on the Town Council with Cherub.)  Katri remembers Miss Salmon, Miss Webb, Miss Wilson-Haffenden, Joan Balcomb (Somerville matron) and Miss Murdoch (Cranmer matron), as well as Dr. Paul Steinitz of the Music department.  She also remembers pupils Eithne Stallon, Phyllis Baker, Ruth Marsh, (Chaucer), Noel Viner (with whom she is still in touch), Pat Strickland (from Bermuda), Ivy Graham (from the Far East) and three sisters from the West Indies: Dorothy, Joan and Betty Wells.
Among Katri’s memories are taking part in a dress parade on the Asphalt, the pupils wearing dresses they had made, and being judged by Haffy’s sister, the noted theatrical dress designer, Elizabeth Wilson-Haffenden.  She also remembers some of the traditions which continued for decades – the senior girls’ dances at Sutton Valence (where her brother was a boarder); and Cherub touring the boarding houses each evening, in all weathers, to kiss every girl good-night!
One year, much to her parents’ delight, Katri was awarded the English Literature prize, and asked for ‘The Poems and Essays of Oscar Wilde’, only to be summoned to Cherub’s study and told that she had made a most unsuitable choice.  She should go and choose one of the books on the recommended list – or forego her prize.  She told her parents that there had been a mistake about her prize, but they still came to Prize Giving, and sat at the back of the Hall with her (she wearing a navy dress, unlike the prize-winners at the front in their suits and shirts.  To her surprise her name was called, and she went up to be presented by Lord Cornwallis with a book – ‘The Plays and Essays of Oscar Wilde’.  Katri’s English teacher had persuaded Cherub that the book had literary merit, and was suitable for a girl with Katri’s bent for literature!!

Rosemary Freeland (Mrs Helbling)1941 
Carolyn received an e-mail from her daughter,
Karen Harney, who is helping to write her mother’s history, and wondered if anyone can help with information.  Rosemary lived in Smarden, and travelled from Pluckley Station to Ashford from 1937-1941with her friend Monica Cambetta (who has sadly died).  When the school was evacuated to  Devon, Rosemary’s mother persuaded the Ashford billeting officer to evacuate her to Countess Wear, and Karen believes she was the only ‘day girl’ there;  she took her School Certificate in 1941 and went on to The Central School of Dramatic Art which was also based in Exeter.  Among those about whom Rosemary is hoping to find information are Sheila Crichton, who sent her daughters to Ashford, Margo Jago, Sheila Tritton and Josie Brockman.

Valerie Davies '54 (Mrs Arends) wrote on another email: "ANOTHER SURPRISE! I have just come from a Kensington & Chelsea Conservative Lunch - and a friend of mine brought a guest. Her name is WENDY OXFORD and she was in my class at Ashford! She was a Chaucer. She has not changed much - same dark hair and of course her name is the same as she has never married. I recognised her immediately - but she took a while to see through my "blonde" hair! She is very keen to see the School Tie. She only kept up with a couple of friends - Ann Parsons (who I think, Wendy said, died last year) and another Chaucer who lives in Canada."Ed's Note: The first surprise was discovering^ that Vivien Rieden, someone she had known for 15 years as a fellow committee member, was in fact Vivien Hirst with whom she had been at School! (see 60s letters)

Letitia Anderson '56 (Mrs Sinker), always a good correspondent, included in her latest email: "We have just returned from a few days in Avignon travelling by Eurostar and TGV - how civilised and SO reasonable! Whilst waiting at Lille station I got into conversation with a fellow traveller who, on learning that we were only going as far as Ashford, said that she once knew a teacher/house mistress at a boarding school in Ashford. This person turned out to be Margery Baker! I was then told of an incident which occurred whilst they were visiting Spain. It was New Year and the small group decided on a picnic on the beach, this was a time of high alert in Spain and the Civil Guard were suspicious of anything unusual. It became apparent that no one spoke English or indeed Spanish but one of the Civil Guard spoke Latin and so did Aunt Marge so the problem was quickly resolved. How does one explain, in Latin, that the New Year was being "seen in" with a picnic? I was not a very good Latin scholar so to me this was nothing short of marvellous! I was not one of Miss Baker's pupils so did not know her very well but I am sure a lot of you reading this did, therefore you can imagine the scenario."
 

SENIOR MEMBERS

2008 News

2008 News

Irene Dawson 1930-1934 wrote to Sandra in October '07 saying: "I am writing to tell you that I do NOT have computer access. My postal address will remain as above (Reading). I enjoy receiving occasional news and was interested to see news from Muriel Judd. I hope she is still well. I had a quiet but pleasant 90th birthday in February (2007). I keep in touch with Betty Allnut (Mrs Knight) 1 do not think she is still a member. I appreciate my Hon. Membership very much indeed. Please convey this to the Committee.
It is two-and-a-half years since I moved here. The management arranges interesting outings by minibus so I am able to discover the beautiful countryside but I still miss the sea at Tankerton very much, especially as I can walk quite well with a three-wheeled walking frame out of doors.
Sorry this is rather a long letter but you did mention you would like to know what we are "up to". With best wishes."
Asst. Ed's Note: For Irene's address please contact a member of the Committee

 

The Association is pleased to congratulate Betty Harvey (pupil in 1930s and Somerville Matron 1952-82) on the approach of her 90th birthday.  We shall be sending some flowers from all of us to her home in Westgate-on-Sea.
 


 

WHERE ARE THEY NOW?


Jill Barfoot
’46-’52, Cranmer, would love to hear from:

Suzanne Russell and Meralyn Kingsley (who may have married an Australian

Rosemary Freeland would love to hear about Sheila Tritton and Josie Brockman (1937-1941)

Sarah Selbie, (Mrs Cook)'72, is looking for Alison Wright who was in Brooke House at the same time as herself.
Margaret Fearnehough, (Ferney) (Mrs Langoulant)'63,  would like to contact Carol Scott and Penny Shute if anyone can help her.
Joyce Moir would like any information possible regarding Aimee Margaret Moir who became Mrs. Mervyn Osmond in 1940 and was known as "Marge". Any help would be much appreciated. She was born in Calcutta in 1915 and returned to this Country when her mother was ill and subsequently died. Please contact Carolyn with any information so that she can send it to Joyce.

School Tie Ed's Note:  Information on 'Missing Persons' to
Mrs Carolyn Chamberlain (nee Nelms)
Tel:  00 33 5 53 28 86 32
Email :
carolyn.chamberlain@wanadoo.fr

We would like addresses for the following: Claire Andrews, Jacqueline Atkins (Mrs Doodie Grubb); Alison Bradstock, Caroline Court, Rotimi Dare, Freya Faulkner, Suzanna and