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For some years now we have thought that the Old Girls' Association could assist the School in its marketing campaign by asking some Old Girls to write up a little bit about their lives and their successful careers which would reflect on the good education they initially received at Ashford School.
Finally this idea has been taken up by the current Head who asked Carolyn to get some profiles from suitable girls, which could be framed and put along Coronation corridor for prospective parents to read as they get taken round the School. The Good Schools Guide visited Ashford in October and expressed a desire for exactly this type of thing for their current publication. The same day that Mr Buchanan told Carolyn about this she managed to persuade our first two "victims" to come up with something overnight, which they of course did.  We think you will be as impressed by what they are doing in their so-called retirement as you will be with what they did in their working lives.
Carolyn will be requesting other Old Girls to do the same thing as time goes on.. The Rogues' Gallery can be added to bit by bit, so if you have a school friend who has had an unusual or exceptionally successful career, please ask her to contact Carolyn. Remember, the objective of this exercise is to highlight what girls have gone on to do after their initial education at Ashford School. This may just tip the balance when parents are trying to decide which of the schools they have visited will prove to be the best investment for their daughter.
 

Susan Littledale (Nightingale)


After leaving Ashford School in 1960 I attended the Sorbonne University as a student on the 'Cours de Civilisation Francaise'. This course, aimed specifically at foreign students, gave me a grounding in French that has been invaluable throughout my subsequent career. I then returned to the UK to attend the University of St Andrews in Scotland where I received an MA in Economics and Political Science in 1966. It was my interest in these subjects that led me to a career in news journalism at the BBC which lasted for 25 years. I joined the World at One programme on BBC Radio Four - presented by the now legendary William Hardcastle - as a junior staff member. Over the years my career as a producer took me through a number of programme departments including From Our Own Correspondent, The World Tonight, and The Today Programme. My work also took me on a number of foreign assignments, the most memorable of which were two trips to South Africa in the years immediately before and after Nelson Mandela became President. Throughout the nineteen-nineties until my retirement in 1998 I was a duty editor on the PM Programme, taking responsibility for all the programme's output on the days when I was on duty.

After my early retirement I moved into the voluntary sector, taking on a number of freelance jobs before training as an adviser at a Citizens Advice Bureau operating in the High Court. Called the Royal Courts of Justice Advice Bureau, it was set up to give advice to litigants in person who are unable to afford legal representation in the court. Since August this year I have been employed as a part-time Money Adviser giving debt advice to vulnerable clients under the government's financial inclusion programme.

Since 1998 I have also taken a particular interest in various aspects of the legal system and in 2003 received a Diploma in Criminology (with Distinction) from Birkbeck College at the University of London. This informed my work as a Trustee of Cranstoun Drug Services - a voluntary organisation which provides specialist services for people in prison and the community to tackle the harm caused by drugs.

In my spare time I have a ceramics studio where I find my relaxation making functional pottery and porcelain jewellery.
 

Valerie Arends (Val Davies, Nightingale)
 
It was said, "there is something about an Ashford girl".
In the 1950's, the school was not an academic hothouse. But according to our beloved Headmistress, Miss Brake, 'Cherub' to all, we could do anything to which we set our minds, mainly nursing, teaching or occasionally, for those who hated blood and children, one might "go to the Foreign office".(visions of Miss Moneypenny)
With her passion for all things French, Cherub inspired me to go for my first job as a bi-lingual secretary to the Comte de Dion, Chairman of Courvoisier Cognac.
The year in France led me to New York and Pan American Airways (Pan Am). After 20 years of married life in New York, I returned to England and found myself looking for a job. And what luck! For ten years I worked for Hawaiian Holidays, then the Hawaii Visitors Bureau asked me to open their first tourist office in Europe.
 
Valerie Arends

Several years later, the Australians asked me to open a tourist office for the State of Victoria and I remained there for 8 years, handling a million dollar marketing campaign for the Sydney Olympics in 2000.
In 1993 I was national chairman of the Association of Women Travel Executives and following that, the UK representative to the International Federation of Women's Travel Organisations.
Now retired, I have become involved in local politics. I am on the Executive Board of the Kensington & Chelsea Conservative Association and was elected in 2006 to the Members Council of Chelsea & Westminster Hospital. A new project opening up is assisting women to become prospective Members of Parliament.
On the family side my husband and I did encourage our 3 sons to strive for academic excellence. They did more than well, graduating from Oxford (2), Cambridge, UCL and Harvard Law School. Cherub would have been pleased.
 

Carolyn Chamberlain (Carolyn Nelms, Nightingale)

 

I was lucky to start at Ashford early enough (Summer 1953) to have had Cherub as my first Headmistress (Miss Brake).  Apart from all her other well-known and well-documented attributes I can remember her as being very fair, nearly always saying “I don’t see why not” whenever a parent requested something out of the ordinary (taking their daughter out of School on a Wednesday because that was the only day possible).  Don’t forget many boarders were what was termed “abroads” then, so parents in the Colonial Service, for instance, had to see their children when they could, not when it suited School.  It was a mainly boarding school then with only two “day bug” houses Chaucer Merchants and Chaucer Pilgrims and five boarding houses.  Apart from lessons and sport, rarely the twain met.  I was in Nightingale with Miss Webb and Matty.


Miss Nightingale was my next and last Headmistress, a person I got to know and love many years later when I became Hon. Secretary of the Old Girls’ Association.  Many of my contemporaries must have doubted the suitability of this “honour” as I was one of the naughtiest girls at School, getting 23 stripes one term and being on double dusters for my sins.  One friend said years later when we met up at Founders’ Day “You knitted so many dusters they couldn’t sell them all at Barnardo’s Day”.
I was well educated by dedicated spinster ladies and shall always appreciate their perseverance.  After A levels I attended the Sorbonne University (during the Algerian Crisis, a dangerous year to be in Paris but an exciting one).  Then, after a year in Italy learning Italian I spent the next four years at the Ecole D’Interprètes at Geneva University and have been a linguist ever since, ending up working for the Police and Courts in Kent and London as an interpreter.  Most eye-opening and rewarding.  Concurrently I worked free-lance as an industrial market research consultant, interviewing industrialists and businessmen in Italian and French and writing the reports in English.  Of course I interviewed in English too, in the UK and US mainly.  The beauty of my life has been that I had a most interesting career but that I did not work during my children’s school holidays.
I sent my daughter Alexandra to Ashford, and Henry went to King’s Canterbury.  They are now both pursuing excellent careers of their own, so the financial stress was worth it after all. (I came across an old bill when sorting out my father’s affairs of £75 for a term’s boarding fees……makes you think!)
My husband was Vice Principal of Mid Kent College for a lot of the children’s school years, (originally a history lecturer) and had lots of enjoyable conversations with Miss Earlam about how History teaching and the exam syllabus had changed over the years...And the French staff always asked me to request the English staff to do more grammar with the girls…..I used to comment that French was difficult because it was the first time they had encountered any form of grammatical construction.
Mary Simpson, Mrs Stevens, now the O.G.A. President first got me involved in the Old Girls’ Association when we moved back to Kent.  She was Hon. Secretary then, and her last daughter was leaving Ashford, as mine was just starting.  She said that my life as a parent would be greatly enhanced by being part of the Association, and she was right.  How clever she was to thus hand the mantle on to me!  Like everything else, lots has changed both with the School and with the Association to keep up with the times.  But I hope Cherub is looking down from her cloud with approval.
Perhaps I can end by saying that in the village where I now live in S.W. France there is an ex-Kent farmer who knew Ashford School and its staff well in the ‘40s and ‘50s.  A young Englishman helping him renovate his house was being a bit “diffident”, and Dick said “The trouble with Jeremy is, he didn’t go to Ashford School”.  I think this sums it up very nicely.
 

 
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